For this week’s blog assignment we were asked to think of an incident we experienced bias,
prejudice, and/or oppression, or witnessed someone else as the target of
bias, prejudice, and/or oppression.
The experience
I most remember is when I first began my career in an early head start class.
My room consisted of 8 children, 6 of which were Spanish speaking, and one year
old.
At the time
I was working with a woman that was married with two young boys, her husband
was laid off, and they were forced to sell their home and rent a trailer in a predominantly
Spanish speaking community.
One day
while cleaning the classroom, as the children slept, she stated to me that some
“wetbacks” stole her son’s bike. I looked at her and asked if she knew who
stole the bikes, not realizing the definition of the term she used. She stated;
“yes, those nasty little Mexicans”.
At that point, I knew the term she used was a negative
connotation against Spanish speaking individuals. I responded to her in a not
so nice way in the beginning, but immediately realized, getting angry was not
the solution, but in fact a lesson in respect would be more helpful. To this
day I can not comprehend how an educator that works in a diverse setting, where
90% of the children and families we serve are Spanish speaking, can state such
an ignorant statement as she did. I immediately let her know that I was
reporting her to the center manger, and that I did not feel comfortable working
along side of her. The woman was reprimanded for her behavior, which did not
improve, and later discharged within the next 3 weeks.
By using such a derogatory term against another race, this
frames people of color as inferior and creates a wider narrative of oppression.
I felt offended and ashamed to hear someone who works with children and
families, from all ethnicites use such a races slur, and it appeared to me
that she felt angry and hurt to be associated with anyone outside of her own race;
I feel this is true for me as well.
Learning about anti-bias is not only a great learning
experience in the classroom for children, but adults as well. Our goal as
adults is to empower children in this diverse and ever changing world, but to
do so, we as adults need to be more responsive to the diverse needs of the
children and families we serve, or encounter in our daily lives.
“An individual has not started living until he can rise above
the narrow confines of his individualistic concerns to the broader
concerns of all humanity.”
— Martin Luther King, Jr.
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It is time for parents to teach young people early on that in diversity there is beauty and there is strength.”
— Maya Angelou